It is necessary to be firm but not harsh in ruling and to avoid an insipid gentleness which achieves nothing. We learn from our Lord how our rule should always be accompanied by humility and grace so as to lead hearts to Him and not to put anyone off. [p. 106]

(St Vincent de Paul. From Jacques Delarue, The Holiness of Vincent de Paul, Geoffrey Chapman Ltd, London 1960, 132 pp)